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When to listen to warnings and when to ignore them
If warnings come from someone who is native to the area would you listen?  What if the warnings come from someone who spent a good few months in the area, would you listen?

Most people gasp when I say I’ve travelled alone, but I blow them off because they've never been anywhere. But I’m getting cautions from people who know what they are talking about.
Mexico is hit and miss--if you go to the big tourist areas and the big cities (excluding the border towns), you probably won't have problems. But there are parts of Mexico that are dangerous.

I work for the Social Security Administration, and we have Mexican nationals who work for us as field representatives servicing beneficiaries in Mexico. They come into our border offices (like El Paso) and sometimes central office here in Baltimore for training. They continually caution us not to travel alone outside the big cities and tourist areas, and to be careful of the police everywhere as they are terribly underpaid and it is tempting for them to shake down foreigners for money.  I learned the hard way in Juarez that this is true.

Some areas of the country still have outlaw gangs that roam the highways and byways, especially at night.  Our field reps are often stopped in their travels; fortunately even the gangs don't mess with the Social Security field reps as many people have relatives receiving monthly checks.

My parents have lived in El Paso for over 30 years and frequently go into Mexico along the border and into the interior, but not into certain areas and not at certain times. They rarely drive a car beyond Juarez based on very bad situations that friends and acquaintances have experienced. When they need to go further into Mexico, they use buses and trains, or their Mexican friends drive.

That said Mexico is a very interesting country and culture. It is big and varied geographically. By and large, people are friendly, though there are some who really resent the US and US citizens.

Read Graham Greene's "The Lawless Roads" for his personal glimpse at some of the not so terribly distant (1930s) historical influences that went into the development of today's Mexico.

I've got a pretty sensitive danger radar.  There are places in London I won't walk at night alone. I sometimes get the jitters before going somewhere new by myself, and this can definitely magnify peoples' warnings to me.  This sometimes makes it difficult for me to sort out what I maybe shouldn't do from the things that are probably fine. I don't make any firm plans until I get to a place, so I can scope out the situation and decide what fits within my comfort level.

Many people talk about "travelling alone" as if they are wandering around in some vast wasteland with not another person in sight.  Just because I don't have friends or my partner with me doesn't mean I'm alone.  There are lots of other people around at any given time and that tends to make me feel quite safe. Most people are quite friendly and just because we grew up on opposite ends of the planet doesn't mean we don't have loads in common to talk about.

I'd never dream of driving around the countryside in Equatorial Africa by myself but I'm quite happy to travel squashed into a little bus with lots of other people.  Being the only foreigner in the lot could single you out but in in my experience and in the places I've travelled this usually work in the favour of the travellers rather than against them.

This could be different in Mexico but it's worth remembering that if the annual murder rates for Florida were applied to many other (especially Third World) destinations, most people wouldn't dream of travelling there but they'll quite happily live in Florida!  Targeted attacks involve only a very tiny percentage of foreign travellers in Africa, for example, so I don't worry about that much but I don't go to political rallies either.

Ultimately I think projecting a confident yet friendly attitude and looking like you know exactly what you're doing and where you're going tends to deflect most unwanted attention.  Most dodgy people want an easy mark after all.

I always make sure I have some extra cash in reserve if I feel like I need to take a taxi instead of walking or want to find another room if I'm uncomfortable with the first one I've chosen.  Most of my best information about the safety of travelling around and doing things comes from other travellers once I've arrived at a new location.  Once I've armed myself with as much info as I can get from home I just hold my breath, dive in and see what happens. After all, if the situation turns out to be bad, I can just confine myself to well travelled tourist haunts. That's never happened, though.

What I'm trying to say is that:

1) safety is pretty relative, so factor in that what feels safe for you based on your past experiences might be different from the people giving you the warnings;
 
2) you don't have to make all your decisions about what you do on your trip right now.  Figure out the things you'd like to do and scope out the situation once you're there.

Although I've never travelled extensively in Mexico, I've heard about the kinds of things.  They wouldn't keep me from travelling there, but they would definitely keep me from renting a car there.  I'd go out planning to take public transport, with a few ideas about where I wanted to go and would make firmer plans once I'd arrived and had a chance to assess the situation for myself. That's just me though; everybody has their own way of doing things.

I'm a bit of a radical.  I say ignore the travel warnings almost always. If you're constantly on your toes, aware of your environment, and keep a low profile, you can travel almost anywhere on earth without having problems.

I had a fascinating trip through Israel and the West Bank which if I had have listened to most western governments around the world I would never have seen due to travel warnings.